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Claims and principled rigidity
Beyond these principled aspects, without a doubt, all those who have a pleasure in giving will accept to satisfy the demands of those they love.
It is not a big problem to satisfy demands as long as the demands are accidental, rare, or aim for small gains.
The important thing is to follow the trend and firmly sanction with distance and stinginess the large and frequent slippages.
Even the most inspired educational discourse does not compare to a decision to delimit and interrupt support for those who are discovered to be opportunists or profiteers.
Wherever there is someone who enjoys giving something valuable, it is very likely that in his immediate vicinity, there will be numerous opportunists desperate to profit as much and as quickly as possible, with total disinterest in the good of the generous person. Often, a fight begins, including between the profiteers, to eliminate their competition, as if the owner of the gifts did not have the right to share the gifts as he wishes.
Therefore, wherever a person who gives appears, a fight will immediately begin between those who claim to profit, which means that no matter how much someone generously gives, if they do not understand their responsibility to manage their generosity well, they will quickly find themselves surrounded by reproaches, control struggles, sullenness and dissatisfaction born from everyone’s claim to be the only one who takes advantage of the generous “sucker”.
The height of insensitivity is the situation in which those who take advantage of the generous consider themselves much more valuable and have more confidence in themselves than those who give and love naively, ... which is absolutely outrageous. Between a notorious parasite and a generous worker, the difference in value is immense in favor of the latter.
